The Line

Where do we draw the line, I mean relationship wise. In every relationship there is acquaintance then there is friendship and after that possibly love. But some stories or maybe most of the stories follow a different pattern. Sometimes we have love than acquaintance and than friendship, sometimes its acquaintance and then love….no room for friendship there.

How can we decide which path to follow and more importantly how do we know if the person opposite us wants to pursue the same route or some other.
The biggest dilemma I feel, as the topic suggests, is where do we draw the line. To clarify – suppose you are a very good friend of someone, just a friend, but everyone around you say that you are more than that …… now you are confused. You like everything about the opposite person, but that’s what friends are. Now it is up to you where to draw the line or decide where their relationship starts and where it should end.

On the other hand you are into someone but in process you become so close friends that the other person doesn’t see you in “that” way any more.
The solution would be the same “ghisa pita“ dialogue - follow your heart. But obviously it’s not very easy which leaves everyone of us in a very sticky situation at one point or other in our lives.

At the end ….some topics just can’t be analyzed logically.